[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 10 months ago

I would 100% be a woman if I could choose

you can choose.

so, you 100% are a woman

problem solved by logic

:3

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 10 months ago

for a temporary fix, go to Settings > General and disable "Internal YouTube Player"

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 10 months ago

first comment from boost for me! thanks for the great work <3

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 11 months ago

auch unpassend, bin eher submissiv

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 11 months ago

würde mir ja gern den zwischenschritt sparen und direkt den schwanz schütteln. leider nicht gesellschaftlich akzeptiert

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 11 months ago

incorrect. "he" for unknown gender is entirely an internet thing, because of the misogynistic assumption that everyone on the internet is male. in real life, youd always use "they" and not even notice as a native speaker

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when to start prog (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

ive been on e for a bit over 6 months now, which from what ive read is the earliest that people start with prog, idk how to determine if/when i should start with it and my doctor isnt very helpful since they only want to give scientifically backed advice, any ideas? if youre on prog, what was your experience like and when did you start and why?

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 39 points 1 year ago

the title of your post displays a serious issue that isnt given enough attention. the amount of discourse and controversy about trans people in politics and media leads to many trans people feeling like their existence, or their decision to transition, is a political one. it is not. there is nothing political about you or how you live your life. you dont have to appease anyone. dont let them force you into detransitioning. just be yourself, take care of yourself, and live as the person you want to be.

also, please stop looking at trans discourse in media because clearly it has affected you very negatively. do yourself a favor and cut off the negativity. get yourself a safe space, whether that be here, somewhere else online, or irl, and dont try to confront the negativity. its not worth your time

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 33 points 1 year ago

thats not how the fediverse does things

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago

i wont uninstall boost for a simple reason: assuming the app still has similar customization options, having my old config still installed should make it easier to transfer to the new app. so ill keep boost for reddit until boost for lemmy arrives :3

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previously, i woud occasionally still get through to frontpage and sometimes even load comments, but now, all i get are toasts with either "429 too many requests" or a simple "error". goodbye, it was fun while it lasted, excited for boost for lemmy!

(and before anyone asks, no, i am not interested in any sort of method to have it keep working. i deleted my reddit account for good and do not plan on returning)

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago

ugh thats so annoying, why do people want us to socially transition when our bodies arent ready to be perceived as female yet, kinda feels backwards to me

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago

absolutely fair point, thats why im scared of it. but ultimately its a one time investment for long term benefit, i can kinda think about it the same way i think about having my blood drawn which also feels really bad every time. the cost would be a problem tho, i hope there could be some way to make my insurance cover it but im not optimistic about that

[-] stella@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago

honestly if i was trapped on an island id rather just let my body crumble and die than let my balls masculinize me

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very excited for this (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

a few days ago, i deleted my reddit account, knowing that it would soon become useless. once boost comes back in lemmy form, i will be here! :3

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