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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by BouncyFerret@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

I've run across these terms several times, but without enough context to figure out what they mean. Could someone help me out, please?

ETA All of you are amazing! A huge thank you to everyone who responded, and an extra thank you to those who have provided links or explanations to further and/or related information. I am learning so much by reading all of these comments!

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[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 131 points 1 year ago

"Sealioning" here refers to a way of trolling by asking ill-intended questions, usually disguising it in innocence. When other members try to explain and help, they'd try to lure them into hours of discussion upon it, usually by knowingly misinterpreting what they heard.

Or worse, just directly disrespect and reject all the suggestions the commenters provided. The essence is being a waste of time for everyone.

[-] abc@lemmy.fmhy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

Is this the same as "concern trolling"?

[-] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago

Concern trolling is acting like you're concerned about the consequences of something.

Like,

If we let people wear masks during COVID, we'll see more bank robberies because masks are normalized!

Sea Lioning would be if I just kept asking you questions about why masks help, often while asking you to link sources. I don't actually want to see any sources tho. I'm just going to keep asking new questions and for more sources until you get tired and stop replying.

Because the more time you waste on me, they less you help people who are genuinely asking for it. Plus when you stop replying, I can claim that as a victory because that must mean there aren't any sources that agree with you.

[-] Snassek@lemmy.fmhy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I have seen these types of scenarios before, just didn't realize they had names.

TIL

[-] dustyData@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

It's related but it differs on the form. Concern trolling is derailing online discussions and debates by simulating concern over a seemingly valid counterpoint, making all participants waste time and effort arguing a previously settled matter, or pretending to just be playing devil's advocate. Acting as if, although you support the cause or discussion at hand, you somehow still have some valid concerns to oppose.

[-] clueless_stoner@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I don't think so. As far as I'm aware, concern trolling is an act to lower morale and place distrust among the opposing side. A person who's on side B pretends to be on side A.

Let's say you're an admin on this site, and you have made a post asking for server donations.

Then just when all was going well, another member comes to the comments, who seems to support you and praise you really well at first. The rest of their comment is then telling everyone that they "appreciate your work", but "you can't handle it", because this or that. Causing some of your genuine members to question you with their "concerns"

I'm on your side, so you should take my bullshit concerns seriously!

[-] blackbelt352@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Concern trolling is "raising concerns" about certain issues that have little to no basis in reality and only serves to inject bigotry and bad ideas. For example, people were concerned about "the gays(tm)" spreading their immoral gay AIDS virus all over innocent children during the 80s and into the 90s, only to learn that AIDS is spread through contact with broken mucosa membranes, which then shifted to "the gays(tm) are pedos" argument.

The "concerns" are nearly always disingenuous.

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