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How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship?
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this post was submitted on 05 Apr 2024
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I think so, yes, but then my girlfriend likes to be around and is really upset when I ask to be alone. She's not wrong thought, because if left by myself I can disappear for a long time...
What does upset mean? Its a bit different if she's concerned for you vs if she can't be alone. My wife was concerned for me when I was playing Minecraft until 4am every night during a stressful time in my life. She can't be alone when she's in my office during the middle of the workday telling me ten different YouTuber's life stories. :D
I hope you find the balance that you're looking for. If your girlfriend feels more social than you, its not necessarily bad to have her call her friends or something. I regularly tell my wife to "call Susan" or something like that when she wants to talk about something that I don't have any bandwidth for or interest in. As long as you make an effort to connect when you can and don't neglect her, I think it's a fair ask.
This is something I have to take into consideration, thank you very much for your reply.
I was with someone who was upset when I left her alone. She finally divorced me.