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I feel that I should preface this by warning questioning people that looking for signs is generally not a good way to find out if you're trans. Different people experience being trans in different ways.
Having said that... There were so many signs. Daydreaming about being a girl. Being uncomfortable about being shirtless in public. Feeling a deep admiration for women. Nearly only relating to female characters. Never falling in love for gay men despite being attracted to men.
I remember when I was playing the sims. I made a female character and the game was so much fun. Then after my sim died, I decided to make a male character, and suddenly I lost interest in the game. It was the exact same game, but being a woman just seemed so much more fun... I should've known.
Thank you for that. And you are absolutely right! Questioning people looking for signs is not a good idea because it all comes from within. It is self discovery and not something other people can put on you.
Do you mind if I use your first paragraph as an actual preface in my post? I will of course give you credit.
Feel free to do that.
What is a good way to find out if you're trans?
As I see it at least, the one thing that actually matters is finding out if you'd be happier living as a different gender than the one you currently live as.
I put that disclaimer there because I've seen many posts from people saying they think they might be trans, "but I didn't have any childhood signs", "but I don't see myself as [insert gender here]", "but I don't have dysphoria" (very often they do, they just fail to recognize it as such). My sibling in Christ, none of that matters. If you know you'd rather live as a different gender than the one you're living as, just do it.