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Men’s Mental Health
I’m admittedly new to running a community anywhere online, but saw a need so I’m trying to fill it and help where I can. I’ve had plenty of my own issues over the years and am hoping for a safe space where men can discuss their own brands of issues. For now we’re gonna run by the Bartender Rule & few other rules stolen shamelessly from !mentalhealth@lemmy.world :
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You and I are in a similar boat. I'm 31 as well and I fell head over heels for my best friends cousin 11 years ago. Due to long distance we couldn't be together, but I didn't want to give up that easily. Long story short I haven't spoken or seen her in 7 years, but shes on my mind 24/7 and I can't shake her out.
I haven't really tried dating since. Mostly because of self-esteem issues and trust issues and thinking that every woman can do better and not waste their time and effort me.
Sorry for the small rant. I just wanted to say you're not alone and you can get through it!