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I noticed a trend in some online interview show recently where hosts ask guests to bark like a dog. I really bristle at that, it would be tough to convince me you don't want to just laugh at me.

I went to Ren Faire for the first time recently, and had a hard time picking an outift to wear because I didn't want to stand out as no-fun, or as being enthusiastic but failing in execution. once I was there of course it was easy to see what an appropriate outfit is.

anyone had similar experiences/thoughts? I realized that I'm averse to being intentionally silly.

it feels like I've had to work hard in my life to not be unintentionally silly or weird (masking), so situations that ask "hey, be weird" leave me very guarded at first.

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[-] Frank@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago

I developed an (un)healthy contempt for the norms and can be fairly strange. Are they judging me? I don't care. If they were worthy of judging me they'd be boogying in the cereal aisle too, and as they are not I can see they are people of no account who can be safely dismissed.

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