this has been on my mind a lot. I follow some lesbian meme shitposting groups and there's tons of memes that are just like "This girl looked at me and I died and then she smiled at me and I came back to life" and I just cannot think of any cishet men's spaces that bring that have that level of absolutely dorky dysfunctional love for women. And, like, cishet men, their whole thing is supposed to be being in to women, and that just strikes me as really weird that there's not an equivalent. Like the closest I can think of is wife guy memes but that's just one wife, usually.

Do any spaces like that exist? Is it even possible given the way gender works in society?

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[–] PM_ME_YOUR_FOUCAULTS@hexbear.net 51 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

why are u as a man liking a woman pretty gay bro 😂😂😂

[–] polskilumalo@lemmygrad.ml 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I was literally asked if I'm gay by a friend, I told her "No, I like women. Especially tall and muscular ones". And then no joke, she said "So you're Bi?".

How the fuck does one come to conclusions like these 😭😭😭

[–] Frank@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Gender and sexuality as social performance : p you can't just be, you also have to do the musical dance number correctly.

[–] polskilumalo@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's so fucking tiring, I don't want to.

[–] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 5 months ago

The wonderful thing about patriarchy is that it circles back around and slaps men too.