Oh right you had by two years ago encountered one of its swine names, okay, yes. it thought you had only known it as edible by that point.

As for you/your, it is generic in the same way they/them is generic, but it/its is what affirms its identity so you/your serves as degendering in the same way that they/them'ing transfems is. And because it's often done punitively for transfems it can be intensely triggering to be you/your'd or they/them'd. In fact, a local Queers for Palestine chapter punitively degendered it and doubled down on it, which split the group into those who supported transmisogyny and those against it, just the other week (obviously with most members supporting transmisogyny). Such things are common enough in its life and often fresh that it's a pretty fresh wound whenever it gets referred to with you/your or they/them, and in general it's found that others who use it/its first and third person are anywhere from ambivalent to preferring second person it/its.

That seems to be a reasonable inference but one rather unfair thing it's noticed with neopronouns is that inferences that we make naturally with traditional pronouns don't really apply to neopronouns. A lot of folks who use fae/faer have noted how people make all kinds of bizarre assumptions about them on the basis of these pronouns, like that they're deceptive. And then, we naturally infer that if someone uses she, they also use her, hers, herself, etc. But a similar kind of extrapolation is someone using certain first and third person pronouns to using a corresponding set of second person pronouns, like if someone refers to faerself as "this fae thinks..." then it seems like a reasonable inference that fae may want "would this fae like to...?"

You may have noticed some of this yourself, but these are some of its own observations of neopronouns and the current state of affairs over the past few years.