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This will probably be my last question here (at least for a while). My last two questions were about flirting and expressing romantic interest to someone. In short in was a mixture of: 'Flirting is important.' and 'Just be yourself.'

I want to give flirting a proper, respectable shot. I want to see if this is something I can develop and get creative with.

At the same time I'm also hearing I should just be myself and let it be natural. Well, I never flirt, ever. So if I do, it will not be natural nor count as being myself.

So, what should I do? What does it mean to be yourself, while trying to change?

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[–] GlassHalfHopeful@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Safe from what?

And who says it's important?

Communication is important, but how you do that is always going to vary. "Flirting" is just one way to communicate.

[–] FatTony@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

Safe from what?

Safe from making someone uncomfortable?

And who says it’s important?

According to folks over at my previous posts. (Though they also emphasised communication)