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How many of you have nice parents that listen? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 weeks ago by tetris11@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Parents you can tell anything to and be heard without judgement, or a list of all your failings in life.

Parents you're not afraid to tell that you tried for something, just in case you fail and it will be used against you for the rest of your life?

Just to clarify, I love my parents and know they love me back, but 10 minutes is literally the limit of co-existence

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[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago

I have one bio parent I can do that with, and I know I’m privileged to have that. To be able to confide, ask questions, seek advice, break down, or even just play cards together provides a certain level of mental safety I didn’t experience otherwise.

I only hope I can provide even a fraction of that to others; everybody deserves safe people.