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Can my sisters friend truly be excused for mental health? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) by AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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My sister Lena’s friend regularly screamed at her, made fun of people, was ableist, etc.

She is on-and-off nice and mean. Right now, she’s nice. Before, she hated Lena. Now, she likes Lena. In a few months, she’ll hate Lena again.

Lena’s friend believes nothing is ever her fault and refuses to get help. She is very secretive and guarded, and acts very paranoid. Along with her defensive behavior, this makes me think she’s sadly being abused if she isn’t just a jerk.

She has quite the ego, but I’m not sure if it can be justified. Lena wants to be her friend and help her even with her behavior.

(She apparently has NPD)

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[–] PunkRockSportsFan@fanaticus.social 13 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Mental illness is not your fault. It is your responsibility, however.

[–] Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Agreed. We should help each other to the extent that we are able. We must also be accountable for our actions to the extent of their consequences.