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Feminists treat men badly. It’s bad for feminism. [WaPo, archived]
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This magazine is dedicated to discussions of issues that men and boys face, especially disadvantages or discrimination due to their gender, from an egalitarian perspective.
From the Wikipedia article it seems to work rather well:
And the feminist author seems to have realized it short comings herself. But sure like with anything there will be bad expressions of feminism.
I really don't get why you prescribe the violent aggressive man to feminist theory. It's the opposite - that is the classical view of men and often the root of the problems men face in society. Feminism on the other hand tells men that they can have other roles, they don't need to be the defender, protector, earner etc. - does not mean that they can't - but that they can chose. It's the conservative view that puts all the pressure on that you are experiencing.