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Flattery undermining my confidence (sopuli.xyz)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee
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When I ask Copilot something, the response usually starts with “Great question!”, followed by emojis and encouraging words that gently pet my fragile ego. Pretty much anything seems to pass for a “good question”, so if my questions are able to surpass that exceedingly low standard, I no longer feel very confident about their quality.

Am I the only one feeling this way? Anyone else noticing how excessive encouragement can have the opposite effect?

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[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Those participation trophies remind me of soviet era medals, awards and decorations people got for all sorts of interesting reasons. If you hand out millions of medals like that, you gain a new understanding of what inflation really means. Same applies to trophies and even complements.