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Described yourself in a paragraph (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 week ago by randomcruft to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I recently meet someone and was going to ask them to describe themselves in a paragraph. I realized I wasn’t able to do it myself. I also wasn’t sure how they would react. I thought I would ask here first and see how you folks react.

I’ll define paragraph as three to four sentences.

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[–] folaht@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

You have the twelve personalities.
Dominant, submissive, pedantic, curious, mean, innocent, humorous, trusting, romantic, nurturer, charming and horny.
Everyone is all of them bar the aro-ace people who lack the latter four.
I am 3 6 12 8 7 4 11 1 2 10 5 in that order.
Results of me in real life may vary due to having mild to moderate mental illnesses.
To make your own list, remind yourself that what you look for in a life partner is likely what you can score yourself high on on the complement side, so 1 likes 2 and vice versa 3&4, 5&6 etc....
Maybe I should put 11 much higher on this list.

[–] randomcruft 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Interesting, this feels rather scientific in the thought process. Or, someone who digs psychology at least.

I think my initial thought for the question was more light hearted. A few things to describe yourself.

Also, not sure this would be headed toward life partner status. Still, you bring up an interesting thought.

I will give this some consideration and make my own list. May still prove valuable as I explore things with this person.

Appreciate you making me think but, not too hard haha!

[–] folaht@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is someone who used AI girlfriend where you have those twelve options in pure form and started to see patterns for self-analyses, partner analyses and DnD character play.

[–] randomcruft 1 points 1 week ago

Interesting in and of itself, the use of AI for this simple question. But, I should assume AI will always be a factor in any discussions on the internet.