It doesn't matter if you post in favor of feminism or against feminism, you're getting downvotes. People really favor the status quo when it comes to gender relations I guess.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yep I moderate a womens only group !WomensStuff@lazysoci.al we get downvotes on the strangest things

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It is pretty sexist to ban men from the space. It sets the tone for how any conversations about men are supposed to go.

I say this as a trans woman.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I see it differently, and overall our group wants to be women only. The regular nasty comments we get from the manosphere are proof of why we need to be womens only.

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Telling men off in every single post title will guarentee your space only attracts the angry men you described

So you have setup a self fulfilling prophecy where all men you interact with will be hostile, further reinforcing what you want to beleive.

Enough of these interaction fostered and you turn women in the space into misandrists and TERFs

The same misandy cycle happened on r/twoXchromosomes

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We clearly have very different perspectives. All the best ❤️

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Troll baiting men to make oneself a victum isn't a perspective, it's attention seeking behavior.

Unless they are a TERF, but their entire "ideology" is just bigotry painted pink.