PoPoP

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[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 24 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

A couple years ago I was playing around with an RTL-SDR and I had it scanning a wide range for any voices. I found a police frequency and they were having a standoff in the park. A mother had a knife and her child with her, I assume it was some sort of hostage situation. They apprehended her, and when they transmitted her ID info, they scrambled the transmission. So I was able to learn about the situation but not who specifically was involved, and I agree with this approach honestly. It never made the news btw.

I'm not sure how it works exactly but I assume they have two transmit buttons on their handsets, regular voice and encrypted voice.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

i quit for a year and a half, then i made the conscious choice to get back on it because life is so utterly shit i might as well enjoy my vices

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 0 points 1 day ago

i'm with you on the no flavor thing, I make my own vape juice and I use a box mod, shit's completely inoffensive and nearly free

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

I was just poking fun, I agree with you that they are dangerous lol

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

people really just say shit with confidence like it's a fact and don't even google it first

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 0 points 2 days ago

If you want, send me a pic (privately) and I'll tell you if it's really over or what you can do to look better. As for friends, that's more complicated, but I got all my friends by talking to strangers in public.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 0 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Most men can drastically improve their appearance with some effort. Best plan for this is to ask your closest female friends what you can do. Also, having an attractive personality counts for a lot (potentially more than looks depending on the woman) assuming you aren't fuck ugly.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee -1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I feel like you're intentionally misunderstanding me at this point, or you only skimmed what I wrote. Nobody said do nothing. I said post memes when it's time to post memes and post politics when it's time to post politics. Either way I'm not interested in continuing this conversation if it's going to involve Reddit-level obstinance.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 3 points 2 days ago

If you don't have time for friends you definitely don't have time for dating.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 0 points 2 days ago

I would like you to read my reply to the other reply, please.

https://lemm.ee/comment/19543405

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I'm autistic so reading behavioral cues more or less doesn't work for me. It's not impossible but my error rate is significantly higher than most people's. I just focus on being friendly and honest. I always take an opportunity to be introduced to someone. I always take an opportunity to become closer to someone if they want that. I also focus on being pretty (I only attract bisexual women, lol)

In my perception, approaching women like the days of old (pre social media) is dead as a concept. There are two ways forward: women become more explicit about when they want to be approached, or they themselves do the approaching. It seems to me that the latter is the path they've chosen. Every woman I've ever dated has come to me and made it clear they want me in that way. Is this a good solution? Probably not. More people are single than ever but that is caused by a lot of factors, not just this social change.

[–] PoPoP@lemm.ee -1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It's just kind of... Completely irrelevant to the post? And absolutely nothing I'm not already painfully aware of, not even a single sentence I haven't already read 100 times in slightly different wording?

I understand that nearly everyone is in a panicked state and that this stuff is at the top of their mind at all times here, but that mental state is representative of someone who is, more or less, already fully defeated. It is needless and actually harmful to bring politics into every context unprompted and the reason is actually plainly obvious if you take a step back.

Someone who spends all their time broiling in anxiety has no energy to put up an actual fight. Spreading ideas and calls to action is a valid form of resistance but this is the social media equivalent of hugging your knees and rocking back and forth while sobbing in a corner. People who care need to use their limited energy wisely in ways that will have appreciable impact. What this kind of posting does is reduce other people's capacity to engage.

My parents, for example, have chosen to completely disengage from politics because they see that their peers who are tapped in have become frantic and ineffectual.

Effective communication requires you to acknowledge that it isn't universally relevant in all contexts. It requires you to recognize that both you and your peers need to recharge sometimes.

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