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Apps specifically designed for disabled people or using apps as a disabled person?
I was mostly looking for apps designed for disabled people, but I'll also take advice on dating able-bodied folks.
I can't speak for apps for disabled people, but the disabled people i know who has had the most success on the apps have used smaller apps and/or dated in kink spaces. There's a lot more open minded people if you leave tinder/bumble behind. (Grindr is always a cesspit, but I don't know anyone else who is both gay and disabled well enough to have talked dating with them) Of course if you're not into kink stuff, you probably shouldn't be looking in those spaces.
Yeah mainstream apps are already nightmare fuel for able-bodied people, I ain't messing with that lol. I'm not into kink, just a cis femme attracted guy, but thank you for taking the time to answer me.