Rare insults

I see most profiles trying to be all things to all people.

You describe "success" well. When I was younger I played the game of averages. If nine girls thought I was a creep but the tenth was impressed that was fine. I would get a phone number most nights which resulted in a date.

But eventually this felt degrading for all concerned (especially for the nine) and it wasn't leading to high quality dates. I finally saw simply getting laid as an inane goal.