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[โ€“] Arghblarg@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Good observation; maybe 'decide' isn't the best word.

[โ€“] Mountainaire@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

We happen to be attracted to whatever we are attracted to... It's subconscious, really, perhaps partly stemming back to childhood experienced and parentally instilled values...