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Lots of folks of quality happen to like tattoos. It's an aesthetic preference not a measure of character, I know planty of tatooed punks I'd date any day of the week over someone like you.
So far you've really only demonstrated that people who are comfortable comparing women or black folks to property won't be interested in "moving in" which is a weird and gross metaphor. No one moves in. They have their own house. That they can ALSO decorate their own place however they please.
How that random lady whos picture you got off the internet looks is none of your fucking business. Who she chooses to date is none of your business.
Please unpack your shit so that all the people who share space with you dont have to deal with the chauvinism you internalized. We all have shit to unpack, I have internalized shit I am working to unpack, but people around you dont deserve to be subjected to a weird entitlement to what they do with their bodies.