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Questions from your child (lemmy.world)

submitted 5 months ago by foofiepie@lemmy.world to c/dadsonly@lemmy.world

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Maybe someone can help me with a question my 10yr old put to me.

‘A few people (in school) think of me as their best friend but I don’t think the same way, I’m best friends with Bob (not his real name :)) instead, and don’t like playing with the others as much. How do I deal with that?’

My initial response was something along the lines of ‘just be as good a mate as you can and be kind to the others’ but I’m not sure I’m getting the nuance.

Any pointers?

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[–] foofiepie@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Thanks. Yep he seems to have been like this from the get go, right back in kindergarten, much more of an extrovert than me. 😂

Had a chat with him tonight about this and there’s no ill will, they all play happily. There is one kid who is seen as a ‘problem’ child who is a bit clingy with him but I think he’s less concerned about that and more with any ‘politics’ with the others eg ‘I thought you were my best friend but you’re Bob’s’ etc.

Thinking of making the point that perhaps the term ‘best friend’ shouldn’t be fretted about, as they’re all good friends in different ways.

He understood it doesn’t have to be mutual or exclusive which seemed to help.