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[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

My dad suddenly died a few weeks ago. We didn't have a relationship, though I tried a few times over the years. Definitely going thru grief, but I think a lot of it is grieving what I never got to have.

[–] avg@lemmy.zip 4 points 18 hours ago

I feel you, my Dad is still here but I grew up without him and when I realized it's not a time you can make up for I grieved for the time we lost. I'm going to make sure mine don't go through the same thing.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 20 hours ago

Foxy that's really sad news. You never got the dad you deserved, all kids deserve supportive parenting and you didn't get that. Him dying has got to bring things up, and it's no surprise you're grieving what you never got to have. Don't forget you can reach out here whenever you want to... you may find !dadforaminute@lemmy.world helpful too ❤️

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. Both for what you didn’t have and for reality.

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 4 points 23 hours ago

Thank you 💜