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I finally bought a domain! Now what (thelemmy.club)
submitted 1 day ago by philanthropicoctopus@thelemmy.club to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
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Hi everyone

Thanks for all the advice on buying a domain. Its a big week for me. Getting on grapheneos, buying a domain, and I also recently started self hosting my contacts and calendar. I love this way of life.

My original plan was to one of the xyz 1.1111b domains for $1 a year but most of the feedback I got said just go with cloudflare. Its a lot more money than I had planned but all the security features are baked in and I feel that's worth the extra money.

Here are my questions. I use the latest version of truenas community

  1. How do I connect my domain to my server apps? I've got a series of apps I'd love to he able to access without tailscale and solely use the domain.
  2. I have heard the term DNS a million times but don't really understand it. What do.I need to know about DNS to keep security up and stay protected
  3. I'd like to let family access my media server, are there any considerations I need to make?
  4. How can I use one domain to access multiple services on my server? Do I need to pay extra for subdomains?

Thank you for any advice

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[โ€“] non_burglar@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I mean, there's a difference between not gatekeeping when talking about cloudflare and completely waving Cloudflare's banner on your front lawn.

  • Cloudflare has full access to your traffic, and privacy is a very strong motivator for a good chunk of self-hosters.
  • You might also be interested in Cloudflare's unending string of bad actor captcha redirects that Cloudflare inexplicably won't resolve, for all their 800lb gorilla strength in warding off DOS volumetric attacks.
  • Another thing you would think Cloudflare has resolved: captcha hell.

So yeah, I wouldn't have phrased it the way original comment was phrased, but holy cow, bro... Cloudflare is far from perfect and the people that will have existential problems with Cloudflare are very likely to be self-hosters.

[โ€“] foggy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I'm not out here to Stan for cloudflare. It's just a totally valid tool for the job, there are valid reasons to use it, and as we agree, it's not productive to tell a newcomer that their choice of meeting their needs is "sad"

In fact, it's an unwelcoming thing to say. If we want folks to stop using cloud services, we can't shame the valid paths to get there.