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It's okay to say you read it wrong or something. Maybe you thought I said I wasn't having luck this year, and missed that I was comparing it to last year? I'd be like "Oh no worries I do that sometimes too." Then we could discuss pollinators and maybe I would share how we used to hand polinate these guys when we were growing them inside and maybe others reading would learn from the exchange too.
But it feels like you were expecting me to thank you for your comment or something? That I should put extra effort into kindly explaining why you are wrong but thank you for trying? Or were you hoping I'd ask you what your advice for increasing pollinators was?
I don't actually understand what you wanted so it is hard for me to understand what good social skills would be here.
That really seals it.
You rather waste your time, pathetically, incapable to manual pollinate. You really sunk cost in that fallacy.
I bet you can't even tell a female from male flower.
You still haven't told me what the socially expected reply was?
I don't need to manually pollinate. The cucumbers are doing really well this year. As I explained in another post we've had a very early heat wave and they went wild before the various things that usually end the season could take hold. It's like, perfect timing and the best seasons we've had in our 5 years here.
Oh, did you want to learn about hand pollination? Well, for cucurbits you need to wait until there is a male flower and a female flower in bloom at the same time. They usually start off with a lot of one or the other, but not both. Once you have both you can remove the male flower and rub it on the stigma of the female flower. You can pollinate more than one female flower with a male flower if you are careful. Make sure some of the pollen is actually landing on the stigma. I like to say "now kiss" when I do it but I'm silly like that.
This is from a zucchini but same thing.