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I've been trying Lemmy for a little while and wasn't sure how to feel about it.

Today, I wanted to start blocking the most high-censorship instances until I could find a fully zero-censorship instance and simply block all the ones with censorship. Filter bots, not people.

When I looked into it further, I found out there are no zero-censorship instances, because Lemmy relies on a broken "federation" system where each instance is supposed to be able to fetch posts from other instances, but it's never been finished to reach a fully working state. Lemmy's official docs say you can't even do federation over Tor at all. This means it uses DNS, so it won't actually allow Lemmy instances to fetch posts from each other freely, it just gets blocked instantly and easily, every time the authorities feel like blocking anything.

So you can only ever have the "average joe lemmy" and "average joe reddit" with everything approved by the authorities, and then "tor copies of lemmy" and "tor copies of reddit" where you have free speech but you can only reach other nerds.

People seem to think Lemmy is different because this weird censorship fetish is extremely popular and most of you are happy to see bans happen to certain people, not just bots, so a small Lemmy that censors certain people feels fundamentally different from a big reddit that censors more people. But it's the exact same thing, it's reddit.

When reddit was smaller, you could say basically anything you wanted there, they just wouldn't let it reach the main audience. Then it got too big, and any tiny part of the audience you could reach would be too big, so they won't let you talk at all.

Lemmy is now the small part of reddit where you can say whatever you want, separated from the main audience, until too much growth happens and you have to move again.

It's not actually a solution to reddit. It's not designed to be different, it's designed to match the past today and then match reddit's present tomorrow, while being part of a system that's about the same in past, present, and future.

Last year, this year, and next year, you're posting somewhere it won't be seen by many people, and the system that charges people for ambulance rides is getting another year of ambulance ride revenue, facing no organized resistance. There's no difference here.

Lemmy urgently needs federation between onion service instances and DNS addresses in order to actually do what most users seem to wish it would do: allow discussion outside what the corporate authorities allow, while outgrowing reddit & helping undo the damage social media has done to human communication.

Edit - I was banned from my instance, and before being unbanned, some of my comments seem to have been removed. I apologize if I hurt anyone's feelings, but it seems pointless to try to discuss this topic here. I'll give a few more replies, and then suggest any further responses be directed to me on nostr, where there are no bans. I've also had a good time posting on PieFed while I was banned, so I'll probably keep spending time there. If anyone's curious, I had a thread about this topic on PieFed too. Btw, instead of the misplaced focus on bots, I should have said filter spam, not people earlier in this post.

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[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When was lemmy.world or lemmy.zip or piefed.social pressured by ICANN? Pressured to do what?

When they were created, they were pressured to censor non-spammers, such as people who share CSAM or other forms of "child porn."

How is that a strawman? You specifically said that Fediverse only exists because MAGA allows it, implying that they could just press a few buttons if they wanted to completely wipe it all out. This seems nonsensical.

It's not. That's how DNS and IP addresses work, they can be blocked by pressing a few buttons. I also implied MAGA could make it permanent by using their guns on non-MAGA staff at places like ICANN offices, which is also true, not nonsensical.

I don’t see what’s wrong with “justifying” basic rules on a community or instance against child porn, incitement of violence, threats, general personal abuse etc. I don’t think that’s a censorship fetish anymore than a place of work having basic decorum standards has a “censorship fetish” or is in a “censorship cultism” trance.

I addressed this in my original post. This place (Lemmy/Earth) is overrun with people who are into stuff like this. You know that, and you're willingly ignore it, since you quoted it with the words "censorship fetish."

Making me repeat myself isn't gonna magically make Lemmy do much better than reddit.

It’s a hypothetical risk that’s never happened.

Making me repeat myself also won't move past and present events out of the past and present.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When they were created, they were pressured to censor non-spammers, such as people who share CSAM or other forms of “child porn.”

Were they? How do you know that? I think it's more likely that the original lemmy.world admins want to censor that to begin with.

It’s not. That’s how DNS and IP addresses work, they can be blocked by pressing a few buttons. I also implied MAGA could make it permanent by using their guns on non-MAGA staff at places like ICANN offices, which is also true, not nonsensical.

And when has this happened? Is there any good reason to assume it is going to happen?

I addressed this in my original post. This place (Lemmy/Earth) is overrun with people who are into stuff like this. You know that, and you’re willingly ignore it, since you quoted it with the words “censorship fetish.”

Okay, so you'll have to get used to the fact that people, mostly, don't want zero censorship in their communities.

Making me repeat myself also won’t move past and present events out of the past and present.

Past events and present events that you can't even name.

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Were they?

You know the answer.

How do you know that?

Same way as you, difference is I'm not trying to lie or gaslight anyone.

I think it’s more likely that the original lemmy.world admins want to censor that to begin with.

More likely than what? I never said they don't.

And when has this happened?

I don't know, have you tried looking it up?

Is there any good reason to assume it is going to happen?

Yeah. hamas.ps has been down for almost 2 years, which is ongoing, and it's safe to assume it's due to the authorities.

Okay, so you’ll have to get used to the fact that people, mostly, don’t want zero censorship in their communities.

Can't "get used to" something one is already used to.

Example of "get used to" being used correctly in a sentence:

Perhaps in the future, you'll have to get used to more people wanting to be in uncensored communities.

Past events and present events that you can’t even name.

Incorrect. I have specified many times. Scroll up.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You know the answer.

I do: They weren't. They just didn't want to host CSAM.

Same way as you, difference is I’m not trying to lie or gaslight anyone.

No, I think that they came to that decision on their own.

More likely than what? I never said they don’t.

So no-one forced them then. So no pressure.

I don’t know, have you tried looking it up?

So you don't actually know, yet you claim it must have happened.

Yeah. hamas.ps has been down for almost 2 years, which is ongoing, it’s safe to assume is due to the authorities.

Never been there. I'm guessing it's a Hamas related site. I doubt it has anything necessarily to do with the US authorities or anything to do with Reddit or Lemmy concerns.

Can’t “get used to” something one is already used to. Perhaps you have me confused with someone else.

So what now? What's your next move? You know there's no interest in what you want.

Incorrect. I have specified many times. Scroll up.

You have finally named one example hamas.ps. You've provided no examples of any Lemmy community being shut down.

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I do: They weren’t. They just didn’t want to host CSAM.

Incorrect.

No, I think that they came to that decision on their own.

Didn't ask, and the "no" is misplaced since this doesn't refute what I said, which is still true.

So no-one forced them then. So no pressure.

Incorrect. Learn what "pressure" means.

So you don’t actually know, yet you claim it must have happened.

Incorrect. I'm not the one refusing to look things up.

Never been there. I’m guessing it’s a Hamas related site. I doubt it has anything necessarily to do with the US authorities or anything to do with Reddit or Lemmy concerns.

That sounds batshit insane. Let me guess, you think the US doesn't control "Israel?" Fucking delusional.

So what now? What’s your next move?

Perhaps replying to someone else. Perhaps replying to you again.

You know there’s no interest in what you want.

Yet another weak gaslighting attempt.

You know there is interest in what I want.

You have finally named one example hamas.ps. You’ve provided no examples of any Lemmy community being shut down.

Didn't ask.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Incorrect.

Sorry, you think that they did want to host CSAM?

Didn’t ask, and the “no” is misplaced since this doesn’t refute what I said, which is still true.

You are making assumptions about the lemmy.world admins that are completely groundless.

Incorrect. Learn what “pressure” means.

What "pressure" was imposed on them?

Incorrect. I’m not the one refusing to look things up.

You made the claims. You back it up. The onus is on you to back your claims up in discussions.

That sounds batshit insane. Let me guess, you think the US doesn’t control “Israel?” Fucking delusional.

Are you of the opinion that the US shuts down all sites online no matter where they are from?

"Yes, hamas.ps was the official website for Hamas until it was taken down sometime after September 2023. The site is no longer publicly accessible."

Not sure what this has to do with the Fediverse.

Perhaps replying to someone else. Perhaps replying to you again.

So nothing that gets what you want then.

You know there is interest in what I want.

There's no significant interest in what you want. You are a tiny minority.

Didn’t ask.

I did. Do you have an example of a lemmy community shut down by a regulatory body?

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Sorry

For what?

you think that they did want to host CSAM?

Who? I'm not clicking through to your replies in separate tabs anymore, I only see what's in my notifications. This doesn't show me the context of what you're asking here.

You are making assumptions about the lemmy.world admins that are completely groundless.

Can you screenshot a place I've done that and circle the part where I did? No, because you're the one saying shit that's completely groundless.

What “pressure” was imposed on them?

I remember this question being answered where you're asking it. Scroll up.

You made the claims. You back it up.

Why should I? What do you see when you Google it? You keep ignoring these questions, and repeating your suggestion.

The onus is on you to back your claims up in discussions.

That's why I do. And when the onus isn't on me, sometimes I don't. Do you have a point? Is this somehow one of those claims where the onus is on me? If so, what claim (I forgot) and how is the onus on me? And bonus question, do you have any idea why I might have mistakenly not noticed the "onus" in this case?

Are you of the opinion that the US shuts down all sites online no matter where they are from?

Not sure what you're trying to ask. We are currently having this discussion on a website. I've been replying from sh.itjust.works for hours without it being taken down, and I"m pretty sure you've been using that same instance the whole time too. The very conversation we're having makes it pretty clear I could not uphold the opinion that no websites are allowed to be online.

“Yes, hamas.ps was the official website for Hamas until it was taken down sometime after September 2023. The site is no longer publicly accessible.”

Not sure what you're quoting, but sounds true.

Not sure what this has to do with the Fediverse.

Why did you bring it up then?

So nothing that gets what you want then.

What do you mean?

There’s no significant interest in what you want. You are a tiny minority.

You know there is significant interest in what I want. You know we are a significant minority.

I did.

I didn't ask if you asked what I didn't ask.

Do you have an example of a lemmy community shut down by a regulatory body?

Same answer as the other times you asked.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Who? I’m not clicking through to your replies in separate tabs anymore, I only see what’s in my notifications. This doesn’t show me the context of what you’re asking here.

Lemmy.world. You seemed to suggest they were somehow pressured into implementing rules against CSAM material.

Your memory is shocking.

I remember this question being answered where you’re asking it. Scroll up.

You did not answer.

Why should I? What do you see when you Google it? You keep ignoring these questions, and repeating your suggestion.

Burden of proof. Onus is on you.

I'm not going to stop. Non-negotiable.

That’s why I do. And when the onus isn’t on me, sometimes I don’t. Do you have a point? Is this somehow one of those claims where the onus is on me? If so, what claim (I forgot) and how is the onus on me? And bonus question, do you have any idea why I might have mistakenly not noticed the “onus” in this case?

You have never backed up a single claim with a single source. You make claims, you back them up. That's how it works.

Not sure what you’re trying to ask. We are currently having this discussion on a website. I’ve been replying from sh.itjust.works for hours without it being taken down, and I"m pretty sure you’ve been using that same instance the whole time too. The very conversation we’re having makes it pretty clear I could not uphold the opinion that no websites are allowed to be online.

I meant are you of the position that the USA exercises its long arm to shut down websites all across the world.

Not sure what you’re quoting, but sounds true.

AI results.

Why did you bring it up then?

I didn't. You did. You bought Hamas.ps. being taken offline.

What do you mean?

That your efforts here are completely useless.

You know there is significant interest in what I want. You know we are a significant minority.

Both of these things can't be true. If there's enough interest, then go and make your own fork and edit of Lemmy to work in TOR.

Same answer as the other times you asked.

Which is to say, no - you don't. And you're making things up.

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works -1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world. You seemed to suggest they were somehow pressured into implementing rules against CSAM material.

OK, and?

Your memory is shocking.

Didn't ask. Also, read Small Gods (or honestly any book please)

You did not answer.

Not again, no, because I remembered it being answered where you asked it.

Burden of proof. Onus is on you.

I asked if there was a way that's true in this case. Is there?

I’m not going to stop.

I think you'll stop replying before me, even if you have to ban me and pretend that's me stopping replying.

Non-negotiable.

What do you mean? You have some way of forcing me to do what you want?

You have never backed up a single claim with a single source.

Incorrect.

You make claims, you back them up.

Correct, generally.

That’s how it works.

Clearly not for everyone. You're obviously not working this way right now. But I do, yes.

I meant are you of the position that the USA exercises its long arm to shut down websites all across the world.

I think you should rephrase that to "are you dumb enough to think the USA doesn't exercise its long arm to shut down websites all across the world?"

AI results.

OK, still sounds true, but kinda embarrassing to be quoting here out of nowhere.

I didn’t. You did.

Incorrect. Scroll up.

You bought Hamas.ps. being taken offline.

Didn't ask. I asked why you brought up the topic we were discussing, in which Hamas.ps had been one of the subtopics.

That your efforts here are completely useless.

Incorrect then.

Both of these things can’t be true.

Incorrect. I've only been saying true things, so without reading the part you were responding to here, I can assume it was two things I said which were both true.

If there’s enough interest, then go and make your own fork and edit of Lemmy to work in TOR.

Why would I do that?

Which is to say, no - you don’t.

This is you admitting you've asked and been answered multiple times, and still continued dishonestly repeating yourself.

Are you starting to break out of the dishonesty, or just getting sloppy?

And you’re making things up.

Incorrect.

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

OK, and?

Any evidence for your claim that lemmy.world mods were pressured into this?

I asked if there was a way that’s true in this case. Is there?

If what is true?

What do you mean? You have some way of forcing me to do what you want?

No, just I'm not going to change my position.

I think you should rephrase that to “are you dumb enough to think the USA doesn’t exercise its long arm to shut down websites all across the world?”

Can you show me some examples of the USA doing this?

Didn’t ask. I asked why you brought up the topic we were discussing, in which Hamas.ps had been one of the subtopics.

Hamas.ps was first mentioned by you, not me.

Why would I do that?

How else is it going to get done? How else do you plan to get Lemmy on TOR?

I doubt very much you even know what you're asking me in most of these posts, to be frank. Your memory of my prior replies is terrible.

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Any evidence for your claim that lemmy.world mods were pressured into this?

Yeah, but why did you put this right after a quote of yet another place where you ignored what I said in yet another one of my replies?

If what is true?

I don't know, I'm not scrolling up to check.

No, just I’m not going to change my position.

That doesn't make "non-negotiable" an applicable term to inject when begging someone to do something for you, lmao

Can you show me some examples of the USA doing this?

Too tired of your shit to read the part where you quoted what you're asking for examples of, let alone hold your hand through Google searches.

Hamas.ps was first mentioned by you, not me.

Didn't ask. I asked why you brought up the topic we were discussing, in which Hamas.ps had been one of the subtopics.

Why did you just make me repeat that? Just to abusively waste my time and energy, right?

How else is it going to get done?

I don't know, is it? Why are you asking like I would know?

How else do you plan to get Lemmy on TOR?

I don't, why are you asking like I do? Just to abusively waste my time and energy, right?

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, but why did you put this right after a quote of yet another place where you ignored what I said in yet another one of my replies?

I don't care. Where's your evidence?

I don’t know, I’m not scrolling up to check.

My point exactly. You barely know what you're replying to.

Too tired of your shit to read the part where you quoted what you’re asking for examples of, let alone hold your hand through Google searches.

So, no, you can't. You make claims and everyone has to disprove them.

Didn’t ask. I asked why you brought up the topic we were discussing, in which Hamas.ps had been one of the subtopics.

No, you referenced them suddenly as a site that was shut down.

I don’t, why are you asking like I do? Just to abusively waste my time and energy, right?

"Abusive"? Am I keeping you here?

If you don't plan to get lemmy on TOR, then what's the point of any of this?

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I don’t care. Where’s your evidence?

If you don't care about my question, why are you asking one?

My point exactly.

Nope. You don't have one.

You barely know what you’re replying to.

Incorrect.

So, no, you can’t. You make claims and everyone has to disprove them.

Not sure what you're saying, but doesn't sound like it makes sense.

No, you referenced them suddenly as a site that was shut down.

Incorrect. You brought up the topic they were a subtopic in. Why do you keep repeating the same lies? Is there a reason other than that you're deeply mentally ill?

“Abusive”? Am I keeping you here?

Why do you keep acting like you need everything repeated so many times? Is there a reason other than that you're a pathologically abusive person?

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm not holding you captive, making you respond. That it upsets you so much is an entirely self-inflicted problem.

Incorrect. You brought up the topic they were a subtopic in. Why do you keep repeating the same lies? Is there a reason other than that you’re deeply mentally ill?

Here's you first mentioning them.

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I’m not holding you captive, making you respond.

I didn't ask if you were. Why waste time typing that?

That it upsets you so much is an entirely self-inflicted problem.

I don't understand. How much do you mean? What problem? Whose self?

Here’s you first mentioning them.

First mentioning what, and why are you giving me a link to my own post?

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I didn’t ask if you were. Why waste time typing that?

I didn't ask if you asked. Why waste time typing that?

I don’t understand. How much do you mean? What problem? Whose self?

You keep crying about me abusing you.

First mentioning what, and why are you giving me a link to my own post?

You can't be serious. You really can't be serious. You can't trace back 1 post to see what I was referring to there in the source?

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I didn’t ask if you asked. Why waste time typing that?

It wasn't a waste of time, my words matter.

You keep crying about me abusing you.

Incorrect. Perhaps you have "crying" confused with "replying."

You can’t be serious.

I think I'm kinda good at being serious, actually.

You really can’t be serious.

Repeating it doesn't make me agree.

You can’t trace back 1 post to see what I was referring to there in the source?

What do you mean?

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It wasn’t a waste of time, my words matter.

Didn't ask. Why waste time?

Incorrect. Perhaps you have “crying” confused with “replying.”

Are you of the opinion that when I said "crying" there I literally thought you were in tears at your keyboard?

What do you mean?

You mentioned Hamas.ps first. The timeline shows this. Here is the link. You genuinely forgot that was what I posted to you?

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Didn’t ask.

Didn't ask if you asked.

Why waste time?

You tell me, you're the one that keeps doing it.

Are you of the opinion that when I said “crying” there I literally thought you were in tears at your keyboard?

Nope. Are you still pretending my straightforwardness makes it hard to believe I can understand euphemisms? (Rhetorical question, obviously you are)

You mentioned Hamas.ps first. The timeline shows this. Here is the link.

Is there a point here?

You genuinely forgot that was what I posted to you?

Forgot what?

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Nope. Are you still pretending my straightforwardness makes it hard to believe I can understand euphemisms? (Rhetorical question, obviously you are)

I neither view you as straight-forward, nor able to understand euphemisms.

You mentioned Hamas.ps first. The timeline shows this. Here is the link.

Is there a point here?

Yes, you claimed I bought up Hamas.ps first. I did not. You did. The evidence backs that up.

[–] iloveDigit@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Replying late because of my ban

I neither view you as straight-forward, nor able to understand euphemisms.

This seems like a lie, but if true, it's something you need to work on

Yes, you claimed I bought up Hamas.ps first.

Incorrect

I did not. You did. The evidence backs that up.

Didn't ask, don't care

Heads up, if you reply to this I might not see it because I was banned here so it doesn't seem worth trying to have much discussion here. If you have anything to say to me, try the nostr version of this thread