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Thereβs a saying:
If you want to go fast, go alone.
If you want to go far, go together.
I also have an amendment to that which is:
If you want to go neither fast, nor far, go with a toddler.
I don't know, the number of problems I figured out quickly by describing the logic to a toddler...
I should give that one a shot!
Honestly it works. The act of vocalizing your thoughts sometimes gives you answers. Doesn't need to be a toddler, the classic is a rubber duck I knew someone who had an action figure of iron man. He would tell people he struggled with a problem he would just ask Tony stark.
Quite the conundrum. I work better alone, but I want to go far.