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like, if I'm nice (as I would prefer to be), a man might get the wrong impression, but I'm also afraid to be rude or do anything to upset them so I have to be the right kind of nice or polite - it's a real double-bind, and something I don't experience with women

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[–] foxglove@lazysoci.al 50 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Please note: this community is women-only, please read the rules before commenting.

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Excited to learn I'm welcome after reading the rules. Ha.

[–] cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Trans women are, I am reliably informed, women.

You can tell by looking at the paychecks, for all society might say otherwise.

Edit: possibly double extra women, going by the paychecks.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Definitely double extra women. I just got handed a gender and don't even think about it, they fought for and won theirs, that's a goddamn battle trophy.

Yes but you're talking about a narrative that implies a universality or underlying truth. I'm talking about math that implies an external perspective from the assholes who centrally manage our economy from the pedo island.

You are 100% totally welcome. Source: am moderator.

[–] Hexarei@beehaw.org 3 points 1 month ago

Your username conjures a delightful mental image lol