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I think because of social norms and toxic masculinity this is most often true, though the roles are often reversed as well. The thing I see least often, in monogamous relationships at least, unfortunately, is all parties working equally to maintain quality of life. ENM doesn't solve that by any means, but because communication and equality is key, non-hierarchical ENM relationships often tend away from those issues, anecdotally.