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What are some habits or skills that you've recently(or not so recently) learnt that improved the quality of your life or made things more fun? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 3 months ago by Achyu to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Had seen a question like this in another sub, thought about asking it in lemmy too.

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[–] mo_lave@reddthat.com 16 points 3 months ago

            
              Seeking to understand others before being understood. As long as a (generous) standard of good faith is met, I meet others' thoughts and views with curiosity. I do not have to agree with them.
Realize that no matter how hard I try, a lot of things are outside of my control to change. The change you desire could take a long time and no shortcuts are feasible. You can stick to your principles and at the same time recognize that there is only so much you can influence.