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Gay perspective:
You must have a face pic of you within the last decade first. After that, anything goes.
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i don't mind holding back the face reveal until after a chat and vibe check. it makes sense given how many men want to minimize the risk of being seen by coworkers, especially in more conservative societies. but i hear your perspective from people a lot also