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For me it means “not clearly someone who gets offended when I don't use their assigned-at-birth pronouns”.
I use it by default for anyone reading in any way leftist or alternative or queer or in any other way cool.
I'm not cool then lol.
I'm sure people other than me have different heuristics!
Point is that they/them is a perfectly fine set out pronouns to use by default for everyone, with no implied judgment.