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I'm afraid of my neighbors calling ICE and breaking up my family (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 day ago by muxika@lemmy.world to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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I live in an area where people ask you where you're from and if you actually live in the neighborhood. They may assume you don't speak English, like they have with my wife.

ICE has already gone through the town nextdoor, and I'm waiting for our turn. I'm light-skinned, but my wife and kids are dark with Mayan features. I fear that all anyone has to do to terrorize my family is call a hotline. We have all our citizenship documentation, but that doesn't matter anymore.

I keep waiting for the day when I'm going to have to defend my family, but I might not even be around when things take place. What if they come take my wife while she's at work? What if she goes shopping and never comes back?

I have nothing without my family. I have nothing.

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[–] msokiovt@lemmy.today 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'd recommending moving somewhere that isn't 200 miles from any border, so ICE won't spy on you. They'll do this for everyone, including citizens, if they're 200 miles from the border on all sides.

[–] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 46 points 1 day ago

The problem is that they consider international airports to be "borders" so you also have to live 200 miles away from those. It's almost impossible to find that, and even then they don't exactly follow laws to begin with.

[–] muxika@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thanks. I'd like to move. We've been looking at other states and taking our parents with us.

[–] regedit@lemmy.zip 2 points 19 hours ago

I used to think IL was a shit place to live. Then we got Pritzker, and recreational weed, and corn (OK, we always had corn). This year we saw Govt. Pritzker actually stand up to tRump. I think all billionaires suck, but this one at least doesn't want to use his wealth and power for evil. He also surrounds himself with experts in fields he knows little about, allowing him to make decisions that are applicable and just. If you move here, look at college towns. Cost of living is moderate. We have some largish cities and places to work. I'd have your back also. I have a particular set of skills that make me a nightmare for people when shit hits that fan (hint ADHD, I accel in high pressure situations).

In all seriousness, I'm sorry you and your family are going through this. I'm sorry anyone has to live in this kind of fear here. You are all loved and deserve to be here, no matter what!