this post was submitted on 27 Dec 2025
29 points (96.8% liked)
cats
6916 readers
1 users here now
A place to talk about and post pictures of cats
founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
In my experience, the best way to get a cat to come to you is to completely ignore it. More often than not it will come to investigate.
As best as I can tell, it's simply impossible for a cat to imagine that you're not aware of them, like they are hyper aware of you, and ignoring it signals that you don't think that it's a threat. Mutual slow blinking may or may not be involved.
Note that I'm not a cat expert, haven't lived with a cat since I was eight, but most cats seem to come over to say "Hi" when I'm visiting friends, to the point where owners seem to regularly exclaim that they've never seen their cat come over to a stranger.
YMMV.