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bowreality@lemmy.ca

Saying no (lemmy.ca)

submitted 2 months ago by bowreality@lemmy.ca to c/leathercraft@lemmy.ca

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I was wondering how you hobbyists say no to friends and acquaintances mostly. I have gifted a few small things and others just know that I do leather work.

I am getting inundated with requests and some are just way too much work. Of course they offer to pay but my time is limited and really I can’t even ask for a real hourly rate without out being prohibitively expensive. Especially when I have to design from scratch it takes me a ton of time.

I also would like to keep it a hobby and make when and what I want and not fulfill orders! I already have a side hustle I don’t need another one.

I was wondering how your experience is and how you handle this.

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[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Ah, man, that’s tough — I would struggle with the “as a favor” part too, and not wanting to come off as seeming selfish (when of course you’re not, you just don’t have the time/energy to devote doing projects for everyone else rather than for just you, which is the whole point). I wish I had better advice. Best of luck, you need your hobbies for you!

[–] bowreality@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thanks. I think talking about it helps. And the confirmation that it’s ok to have some hobbies for myself. I shouldn’t feel like I owe people.

[–] Doubleohdonut@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Hey friend, sorry I misunderstood the original question. I still think a standalone page might help, but like you said, you really want to put a firm boundary down that this is for fun not open for commissions.

Maybe something like "I'd love to be able to help with this request but since this is my hobby and not a business, I'm not equipped to handle requests like this". Feel free to chatgpt it more closely to your scenario, but I think a single sentence is probably the simplest thing you need here.

Your boundaries are totally reasonable.

[–] Jumbie@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

OP, this is solid advice until the ChatGPT part. Please don’t use AI to formulate answers to your friends.

[–] bowreality@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

Never