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Agreed. Talk your neighbor like a normal person.
Passive aggressive bull shit alone won’t fix the issue.
Maybe he’s a dick and won’t care. Then you should take it up with management.
Anybody that lives above other people and drops any heavy item on the floor intentionally is a dick, there's no maybe involved here.
The sheer number of unacceptably loud neighbors I’ve had above and adjacent to me makes me wish this wasn’t true, but it is. If I can hear you peeing, that means you can hear me peeing. So of course you’re keeping me up at night with your booming subwoofer and random 1am furniture rearranging. People are assholes.
I’ve come to believe it’s not always intentional, but that doesn’t make it any better, it just shows a distinct lack of empathy and disregard for other people around you. I fucking hate living in apartments…
Oh, and if you live in an upstairs apartment with hard floors, and keep your shoes on or walk around in heels all day, stop doing that. Your downstairs neighbors definitely hate your guts.
As the OP, the girl of the couple that lives above me does this too. Not all day but when she's off to work or getting home. Like why don't you leave your heels at the door? Does not give a fuck
If you can hear them peeing, that's not an apartment. That's a paper cell