I think I'm cis but I'm questioning my gender kinda, need advice (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 years ago by Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

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I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don't go out of my way to use them I'm also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I'm not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I'm confused

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[-] vis4valentine@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

whatever you think might be ok to open up about. Like, why you feel like They/Them fit you better? Do you think like don't fit into ur gender assigned at birth? What it something that makes you question ur gender? and what might give you some form of euphoria?

[-] Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

I don't think they them van replace them. I wouldn't want that. I fit with my assigned gender.Questioning because I don'tmind they them and like bracelets and stuff. Don't have any disphoria or euphoria.

Would like to try nail polish for some reason. Used to do it when I was like 7.

[-] vis4valentine@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago

That is Ok, sounds like ur cis with some aesthetic preferences and that's ok. You can try out they/them with some friends and you can see if it sticks with you. Plenty of cis guys have their ears pierced, wear bracelets, have nair polish, dye their air, use eyeliner, etc. Feel free to experiment with out appearance in a way that makes you feel comfortable. Best of luck.