My post was removed from no stupid questions for a rule 1 violation

The title was clearly formatted in the form of a question, and the question is actually about something real. Who at this community decides what isn't a real question? What are the criteria, and why isn't the OP asked to verify their question before a post is removed? Is the only criteria for a rule 1 violation that enough people downvote and report? If so, be transparent and update rule 1 to "MOB RULES".
Furthermore, I had at least two commenters say that my question was stupid, when clearly in the sidebar, it says there are no stupid questions. If I had known we just make shit up as we go, I wouldn't have even asked.
No Stupid Questions and Shower Thoughts seem to be moderated and frequented by NPCs whose only litmus test for discerning if a question is an actual question or a thought is and actual thought is asking themselves, "would I have asked this question? would I have had this thought?" and the answer is no, because they only have the capacity to think about their own basic functions. For them, keeping their bowels from releasing is a constant and conscious activity.
Very dissatisfied, won't recommend that community to anyone.
What the fuck is wrong with you?
...is this more of an introspective question, or would you like me to start rattling stuff off?
Actually, I want you to feel shame and then fuck off
rule 1 victim blaming
ok i have to hand it to you, this one's funny. coming in with the groucho marx glasses and all
I mean, I feel shame daily for a wide variety of things, but I don't see the correlation to this post.
EDIT: was it the bowels thing?