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Hetero myself, but hung around lots of gay dudes for a few years. Them hitting on me all the time. I realized its not that different from a woman you are not interested in hitting on you. Just politely turn them down and move on.
Or if you are bad at social queues, yousimply, don't notice like you don't notice the women hitting on you.
I've been propositioned by gay men more times than I can remember. Literally every single cruise I've been on. Vegas, bars, house parties, and barbeques. I realize I give off the impression that I myself, might be gay, but I've been married for almost 20 years to a woman. I do not find any men sexually attractive.
Guess what? It's always a huge fucking compliment. I take it as I'm fit enough, dress well, and I'm seen as non-threatening. I always like to joke that I wish I were gay though, lol.
you must live near a gaydar jammer.
Also, married to a woman means not gay....LOL.