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For sports, we spend all our lives saying that victory is not the goal of sport, then we separate by gender so victory feels fair
I also think we should not separate by gender, and instead have multiple tiers of experience at the Olympics.
But there is some truth on those who argue that having women's sport encourages women to play sports in general, as less women play sports than men (I think). Even if there was no measurable general difference between the biological sexes, males would still generally outperform just out of statistics, because there is more of them.
So the deal is actually cultural. Society needs to abandon the idea that gender has anything to do with sports. Just like we do for skin color or height. So that when a girl sees a football match with 18 men, 3 women and 1 nonbinary, she doesn't feel like football isn't for her out of gender.
Like, I myself like volleyball, but all throughout my experience I've noticed how I had to struggle far more than my peers simply because I was short and physically weak (struggles eating during teenage). I also did Judo for a bit, there are tiers by weight, meaning I competed with 10yo children as a 14yo. What I mean is that while I can agree a child would notice differences out of gender, it's not like this is something new, acknowledging physical differences and accepting them is a key part of personal growth in sports already, gender would be just yet another element.
I also don't see why its so important to encourage sports. Let those who want to do it and not based on whatever their preference and ability would allow for.