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Thank you for this thoughtful reply. I'm sorry for your pain, personally I can't imagine what societal rejection like that would be like or the damage it must do.
Sadly it seems that this is such a polarising issue that many argue for one person's right over anothers, I don't feel this is a path to a happy future for anyone affected by this. I sincerely hope that in the future this entire conversation is moot.
However it's clear that some consensus needs to be found as, in a society that values every one, no one person should feel that they don't have a level playing field.
What is a woman and what is a man? I wish I had some clever words to answer this. It's part of why I wish to have conversations like this. Wouldn't it be nice if we all had a clear way to parse this issue without hatred or suffering being involved.
I've been shown some studies that seem to indicate that after a period (two years was what I was shown) the differences appear to be negligible. If that's the case then perhaps that is the way forward, once transition is complete (complete seems like the wrong word but I hope you understand my meaning) then there really shouldn't be any reason to stop trans athletes competing, would you agree with this?
Absolutely. I think that is a fair compromise.
Thank you for this conversation, I appreciate you not attacking me for trying to understand something that I've never experienced.
My middle son has struggled with his gender identity, still is, and I feel I need to understand.
Talking with you and others has helped me move my opinion forward.