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Ive always thought of it as more of a shot against the man than the woman. In your example, the man slept with someone he normally wouldn't, for whatever reason, and only recognized that fact once his desire for sex was satisfied. The woman didn't change in the entire situation.
Likewise, I'd say my choices in this area were poor, but had nothing to do with looks.