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Tolerating intolerance
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Sure, lets start with having a penis making you a man, and a vagina making you a woman. Referencing indisputable biology has been called both hate and a phobia more times than I can count.
Ah, there it is. At least you're willing to say it and not tiptoe around it like a coward.
The reason the scientific community does not endorse the conservative gender ideology, is because it causes much more direct harm than good to human happiness. If we don't let trans people transition, their lives are so much worse that they are seriously likely to kill themselves. Most of the negative consequences of transition come from bigotry, something that is unequivocally on the bigot, not the trans person. Most people who "detransition" after taking hormones do so because of hate rather than because they realize it wasn't for them.
There is no direct harm caused to people who aren't trans so long as they treat other adults as equals, and let children access the help they need. Trans people are not more likely to be the perpetrators of violence, they're more likely to be the victims of it. Male predators don't need to pretend to be a woman to get into women's bathrooms or intrude on their spaces. The anti trans rhetoric is based on lies.
The biggest thing you need to recognize about your position is that it helps the insanely corrupt and selfish far right political groups like the American GOP. It is a wedge issue used to promote incompetent rulers who hate anyone that isn't a rich male member of the largest cultural group. Even if you don't believe you hate trans people, your support allows trans people to be legally persecuted for trying to live. I am not exaggerating, trans people are losing lifesaving treatment and being forced from public life, thanks to the refusal of people like you to stand up against the bigots.
You did prove them right, though. It was fine to say a woman is someone with a vagina and a man is someone with a penis in the past and now you consider this hate speech.
So, their point is correct. People change the definition of words and if you still use that words you are treated as a bigot and worse.
Are you all misunderstanding this discussion on puporse? Or do people struggle to understand how replying on Lemmy works? You all are now arguing against me how it's bigoted to misgender someone.
I will put the discussion into this comment again, just because I hope you seriously just lost track of what was said.
Person says:
This gets 10 upvotes, 120 downvotes.
Another person answers:
This gets 72 upvotes, 2 downvotes.
The person replies with:
5 upvotes, 42 downvotes.
And now people go on a tangent how it's bigoted, dangerous and wrong to misgender people. How the defintion of words change etc.
Are you all dense or something? That's literally what the person was saying! But by pointing that out you all somehow try to paint the person as bigoted. That's completely besides the point? Is someone else seeing what's going on here?!
And other words change if they are acceptable or not. In our grandparent's childhoods, it was usual to call a black person a n*****. Now it isn't, and that's a good thing, isn't it?
But that's not the point of the discussion? The person said that things that used to be fine can suddenly be not tolerated. People downvoted the person and claimed that's not true.