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this post was submitted on 26 Sep 2023
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How I saw this as a different version of the same old stuff is that this comment said essentially "well it used to be good when I used it, but now it's awful and destructive" which it might be in ways but it's absolutely a net positive from what I have seen
As someone who online dated for years, up until 2021, I'm very aware of the down sides.
Okay that makes more sense. I do think that "online dating is awful" is a very different statement from "well it used to be good but now it sucks" and the two phrases come with very different qualifications and conclusions.
The former phrase is a pretty blanket judgement on this aspect of society in relation to the whole. But the latter statement has more to do with the enshittification of the internet and the capitalist systems woven inbetween. The latter statement is a historical comparison while the former is a value judgment of society.
As for your opinion itself, I don't have any strong feelings one way or another. The nature of the internet has paradoxically connected more people than ever before while simultaneously isolating us more than ever before. I personally don't think that online dating really differs from that mold. I think that this is one small part of a larger problem where capitalism has commodified almost every aspect of humanity, which is accelerated by the internet.