I have two kids. The idea that these games are not addictive is laughable. Something only someone without kids that have found roblox (or similar games) could possibly convince themselves is true. Even just looking at all FTP games I play, I can see how they are taking advantage of that need for the fix to pull money from you at the most opportune time. Lucky for me, I don't really have an addictive personality so I'm easily able to set aside those things.

But my kids have not developed the same level of self control or self-realization yet. They just continually want that dopamine hit. We definitely limit screentime and what they play (roblox is out now). In the times we have done "device free weeks" you can absolutely see the change in behavior from the withdrawal period right after you take away the game, to at the end of the week when they barely even complain at all that they can't play.

I remember when my older kid went away to sleep away camp for 2 weeks, and when he came back how his younger brother talking about the games seemed so foreign to him. He like had completely detoxed and didn't care at all.

There is definitely an element of parental responsibility here too. But you what the author doesn't seem to realize is that it's not so easy. All of the kids are playing games these days, and it is a common past-time. While you could just say "no games" and call it a day, I don't know of a single family that does this. Even the ones who are very strict allow their kids to play some switch games. Even the ones that think their kid has some kind of gaming addiction (and have taken away all online games) let's their kids play certain console games as well because they don't see it creating the same behavior. And if you open the door a bit, it's a constant battle trying to figure out where that line in, and you're competing against big money using experts to figure out how to win that game. It's an extremely hard game for a parent to win.

It would be much easier if it were illegal to use these intentionally addictive mechanisms in games targeted at non-adults.