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[-] SuddenDownpour@sh.itjust.works 104 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Humans are rationalizing creatures, much more than rational ones. Our first gut reaction is trying to make sense of why we think what we think and why we behave how we behave, rather than trying to figure out if it does actually make sense. If this natural tendency could be changed, the world would be far less of a shithole.

[-] Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 40 points 10 months ago

This is why, rather than slapping people in the face with a mountain of research, I try to ask them questions that lead them to the conclusion I want them to reach. Oh we discuss along the way, but you get a lot less of the black and white thinking bold statements that someone entrenched in their beliefs tends to make

[-] mipadaitu@lemmy.world 34 points 10 months ago

The research backs up your statement. Especially if you yourself are genuinely interested in the conversation, and also willing to update your own thinking, along with helping get everyone in the conversation to start understanding the real answers.

In case you haven't listened to it, the You Are Not So Smart podcast covers the topic of how to get people to change on a pretty regular basis. It's a great podcast that talks a lot about conspiracies, misinformation, and how to combat them.

https://youarenotsosmart.com/podcast/

My favorite part of this podcast is that if you listen to it from the start (nearly 300 episodes at this point), you can hear him slowly become very jaded and pessimistic, but then as the podcast goes on, he starts turning around his opinion and gets exited and optimistic about all the progress that is made. It's a really great podcast and makes me excited for the future.

[-] kksgandhi@lemmy.ml 4 points 10 months ago

Thanks for the recommendation!

[-] rwhitisissle@lemmy.ml 9 points 10 months ago

This is just the Socratic method. It's like...the oldest formal rhetorical strategy.

[-] doublejay1999@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Shhhh don’t burst his bubble.

[-] Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 7 points 10 months ago

If it ain't broke, don't fix it

-Descartes or some shit

[-] Hamartia@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

A stitch in time saves nine.

-Pliny the elder

[-] abbenm@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 months ago

(Psst it's not actually the socratic method)

[-] abbenm@lemmy.ml 0 points 9 months ago

I don't think so? The Socratic method wasn't necessarily a strategy intended to carefully persuade someone by bypassing psychological blockers. If anything, Socrates' counterparts were often antagonized and angered by his questions because he exposed contradictions.

I think the ethos behind it was that Socrates presumed he knew nothing, other people seemed like they knew things, so he asked them what they knew, since others were so bold as to make knowledge claims.

[-] undercrust@lemmy.ca 8 points 10 months ago

Ahh, after all this time, the Socratic Method still reigns

[-] rwhitisissle@lemmy.ml 20 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

We're also to some extent innately combative creatures. People will say "Oh, I showed people the facts and they still didn't change their mind. They're just idiots stuck in their ways." Okay, cool. When you tried to present these facts, did you do it in such a way as to treat them courteously or as an equal, or did you do it in such a way that you got to feel like you were dunking on them rhetorically? Because it's not as simple as presenting someone with facts. It's doing so in a way that doesn't make it feel like you're trying to establish some kind of superiority over them. Because then they're not presenting facts to you, they're just attacking you and your position. And these are very different things, conceptually and emotionally.

[-] doublejay1999@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago
[-] denshirenji@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago
[-] Kase@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

Just putting this here for giggles, I don't disagree with you lol

[-] Hamartia@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Oh I'm sorry, is this a five minute argument, or the full half hour?

[-] denshirenji@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Oh, just the five minute one.

[-] Hamartia@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Just the five minutes. Thank you. Anyway, I did.

[-] asceticism@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Can't tell if this is a joke. You're being combative in your comment.

[-] aksdb@feddit.de 3 points 10 months ago

That is - IMO - what critical thinking is meant to be .... thinking about alternative explanations and evaluating their viability or probability.

Unfortunately a lot of people use the term "critical thinking" as just another way to rationalize why they are against something, without actually weighing the options.

[-] MonkderZweite@feddit.ch 2 points 10 months ago

I do that and i'm the weird one.

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