seconding you go to c/askchapo. the gist of it though is that if we smell a hint of reaction in anything you say, the knives, guns, and attack owls come out. otherwise hexbear is kinda very cuddly and a great place for lgbt users, it has some of the most heavy-handed anti-queerphobe moderation ive ever seen on an online space, it mimics the more radical elements of an irl pride event very well. well over 50% of the mod and admin team are queer of some kind at this point and a good number are trans (me included, i mod c/traa). the mod team also takes nsfw tags and content tags for handling violence against women more serious than any space ive seen on the internet outside of maybe news sites that have the default shocking content label.

i don't know of anything like that. could ask on c/askchapo or ask people at the general megathread

if you decide to make an account, check out https://hexbear.net/c/howdy !

struggle sessions on hexbear are when there's a large disagreement on a specific subject and arguments ensue. It's not a struggle session if it's everyone ganging up on one lib or chud, it's only one if it's more of a 50-50 split in the community. Usually it resolves by mods locking the thread but sometimes it spreads to other threads. We don't allow sectarianism so its not usually a struggle session between say anarchist and marxists, but instead on some single issue.