I recently adopted a pet, and I keep wondering which new social media can replace what facebook offers to animal shelters and other charity orgs. Like, so long as they get that stream of donations, adoptions, and volunteers directly from facebook, they aren't leaving without hurting their #1 priority.
Honestly the Fediverse is really better for connecting with strangers then locals. Not saying it can't be done but yeah, everyone is probably still using Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook and etc. and to them they might see it as "no one is using the Fediverse" because not too many youtubers, or friends of theirs are actively using it.
On the other hand I've seen a few people delete their profile regardless. Some of them very recently after the latest announcements.
Plus there is an exodus from X/Twitter currently taking place. Bluesky can do it, so it's possible. And it has happened before. I still remember the times before Facebook and other platforms. They're all big and inevitable. Until they're not...
But with that said. Sure. This kind of lock-in and high switching costs are a big problem for (new) platforms. It's called the "network effect".
How can we help the network effect along though? Right now, we're paddling upstream, because there is really no system in place for making a private circle that you can post updates to. Yea there's private group chats, but I'm not going to set up a private group chat with this dude I went to high school with 20 years ago, just to show him my kid. We need a way to just add people we know, and show those people we know (and only those people we know) our life updates. That is, in simplest terms, the value facebook provides, which does not exist on the fediverse right now.
Hmmh, the network effect is the opposite side. It's the effect that binds people to platforms. Platforms are just as useful as the network of people they connect you to. We need to overcome the network effect here.
And that's really, really hard. I mean look at how Bluesky does it. They invest a lot of money to make it possible. They waited for the right moment and sort of caught their competition with their pants down. Furthermore, they did some marketing stunts like the invite-only period to hype their own product. And have journalists and influencers talk about it.
The product needs to be excellent. And even that's not enough. If you're as good as the competition, or just slightly better... There isn't really an incentive for people to switch. Companies like Google fail at inventing a product that competes with Facebook.
Ultimately, I don't see a good way of competing with social media platforms. People just don't care about their privacy, so that's not something you can win them over with. And even if their platform is operated by a bad person like Elon Musk, and has a really toxic atmosphere for better part of the last decade... The majority still doesn't really care. It took him (Musk) to deliberately run X into a brick wall to get things going. Something like Reddit taking away user freedom, clamping down on all kinds of things, selling user data etc doesn't do much in that context.
I'm a bit disheartened as you can tell. I'm always advocating for Free Software, more ethical alternatives and for people to care about their freedom. But in my experience that's a niche thing. I don't really get through to regular people. I kind of make the best of it. I have a profile on the Fediverse. If people want to talk to me, they can come here and talk to me. But yeah, that does away with my high school friends.
Edit: And by the way, are you sure Friendica posts go to the whole Fediverse all the times? They have groups and privacy features. If these features are implemented well, they shoud stop your posts from propagating to arbitrary places.
I suppose there's two sides of the network effect. One side is how it works against a platform. In the case of the fediverse, it is working against it, for sure. The other side is how it helps a platform. For facebook, it helps. However, I would argue that these things are not immutable. Why did facebook develop a strong network effect? Because it provided a value that a lot of people saw, and encouraged them to sign up. It attracted users before it had a solidified network in place, because it built the infrastructure for the network effect to take place.
I do agree that open software is a relatively niche concept, but I think a lot of people these days can see very clearly how having one person own a whole platform and control the direction of it is a bad thing. Many of my more "normie" and less tech minded friends are talking about finding alternatives. I wish I had a place to direct them that provided the social networking functions of facebook, but it just is simply not a thing at this time. Even if there was not many people they know on there, as they join, we could find each other. We would do it as a group, as many of them are currently doing for bluesky. However, I am not recommending friendica yet because it is still not quite there.
As for the private posting functionality, I see no options to enable that, if it exists. I think there is a lot of work that needs to be done on the UI and tutorials side to enable and instruct users on how to fully utilize the site.
Agreed. Note however, that it's not only open software that is a niche. There are many closed services as well that don't get any traction. For example the several email providers that don't read your private mails. They're a niche, too and people keep using GMail. Or other shops than Amazon. People often just use the dominating service. That doesn't really have to do anything with open software or anything. I think it's a bit of convenience and mainly people use what they're familiar with.
Unfortunately I don't know much about Friendica. I heard it has privacy, friend circles/groups, different post types, a feed and interconnects with other platforms. But I've never used it myself, because I don't really do social media except this platform here (Lemmy). I think Mastodon is very popular, but it's not alike Facebook at all. Other than that I can recommend writing a blog or having a website... But you can't really share family photos there. Or one of the Linktree clones, so people can at least find you and get your contact details if they want.
And yes, I also don't think these platforms are immutable. It's just impossibly hard to overcome. But all the current services have started somewhere. And this isn't the early internet anymore. It's a different story for Google Search, they've been here a long time. But all the Facebooks etc had to outcompete someone and overcome the network effect. And they did so successfully.
I remember the steady turnover of social media networks leading up to Facebook—the joke was that kids would migrate to a new platform every time their parents joined their current one. I think there’s a kernel of truth there that’s still a potential weak point on Facebook: people want to have distinct, non-overlapping online personas for different social groups (family, work, friends, etc) without the overhead of maintaining multiple accounts. That seems like an avenue a potential fediverse Facebook alternative might exploit.
Kids aren't on Facebook nowadays. It's definitely an "old person thing" for them
That's somewhat of a myth. 43% of Facebook users are under 34, and nearly 20% of them are under 24.
https://www.statista.com/statistics/187549/facebook-distribution-of-users-age-group-usa/
80% over 24 is pretty solidly an "old people thing."
As an old man I demand those 20% get off my facebook and turn down that 101 gecs!
I mean, on the flip side, about 60% are under 44. I think 40-50 is the cutoff for being considered "old" these days. I say this as someone who is quickly approaching that first cutoff, lol.
From kids perspectives it is different. For young people anyone over 25 is old, solidly adult, not “with it”, washed, etc. Contrasts that with almost 70% of tiktok users are under 24, with over 50% of creators in the 18 to 24 range. That's solidly a young people social network. Facebook is in comparison made of old people. Most young people who engage with Meta do so through Instagram, and have a Facebook account because IG nags them to create one. But they aren't going there or spending any significant amount of time engaging with Facebook itself. Facebook follows the global age distribution more closely, but users and active users engaging are entirely different things.
Ask a teenager how old are the people he/she/xe consider old, 24 shouldn't be too off
The generational divide is just one instance of a broader phenomenon—similar divisions exist in adults between our constructed personas for family, work, friends, interest groups, etc.
I think an option on login for "personal account" vs "anonymous account" would be great. Personal accounts could require a phone number and allow import of contacts to help find personal accounts you know. There is a so much untapped potential here, we just need to make it a thing.
Or maybe a server that lets you create multiple, “connected” accounts at the same time, together with a client that combines the accounts into one view.
I suspect the large majority of people who use the Fediverse don't want to be publicly trackable in this way. It would be fine for me if the people who did stayed on Facebook. To me, it's not a goal that 100% (or any %) of Facebook users move to the Fediverse. What is important is just that the Fediverse has a critical mass of activity that it doesn't completely die.
Also, maybe it's just me (I'd be interested to hear what others think) but I think trying to track down old school or college friends is really something people only want to do for a few years. By the time I hit my mid 20s I didn't really care anymore. There are people from school I sometimes think about and wonder where they are now, but ultimately, if I never tracked them down and they never tracked me down in the years since, the connection was clearly not that important.
It may be true that a large number of current users do not want to be publicly trackable. To be clear, I am not saying that all of the fediverse should be public personal profiles. However, the people on Facebook who want alternatives are going to be sorely disappointed. It's not so much of meeting a goal as it is fulfilling a need. People want this, and it would be good for society if they had it. The infrastructure is here, it's just a matter of building it.
On the second point, I'm in my late 30's and have found a great deal of value with connecting with my friends and family. I was disconnected for a lot of years and it was extremely socially isolating. Reconnecting has been therapeutic for me, and it is one of the big reasons I will probably not be deleting my Facebook any time soon.
Leave Facebook for a month. Tell people how to reach you on there before you go. You'll forget why you ever went to that site.
I just lost my cat. I made a post about it. Dozens of people who would have never heard about it otherwise reached out to me to comfort me. Sorry, but I don't think I'm going to forget about how helpful that level of connection is.
Sorry about your loss
If zero effort bits posted to your page make you feel that connected, then Facebook might be for you.
Sorry I don't view social media as a second job that should require a whole lot of effort to engage in. What even is that take, for real?
That for me, receiving a crying emoji on a post doesn't make me feel more connected to people.
I said that if that works for you and makes you feel connected, then Facebook would indeed offer connection for you. It doesn't for me.
I am not sure why you seemingly got mad about it.
I thought you were referring to the posting itself. I see what you mean about the emoji. It's not some super high level of connection, but it is connection none the less. Someone I know gave me their thoughts. I may not have seen them or even talked to them directly in a number of years, but they still thought of me. That is meaningful, and if you can't see that, then I guess I don't know what to tell you. Feel free to minimize the experience all you want.
The exact reason I've never had a facebook account.
Recently i’ve been wondering if that is even a thing anyone wants. Being connected to everyone I’ve ever known — for me Facebook stopped being a place I posted on around when my graph exploded to everyone.
I mean, that's good if you don't want that, but I think a lot of people do. I abandoned facebook in 2017, but returned in 2022, and realized how out of touch I had become with everyone. I have friends, aunts, uncles, siblings, etc all added, and it is always nice to see what they're up to. If you don't want to keep in touch with people, then I guess I can see why you would not value that functionality and be fine with Friendica as is, but I think it is something a lot of people are looking for, and I would argue one of the primary values that social media provides to society.
Yeah we know. But it's not really anything we can directly control, it just has to organically go viral. Marketing would help, but isn't guaranteed.
I'm saying the reason it is not going viral is for the exact reasons I mentioned. The reason facebook went viral in the first place. We need either a potential modification of sites like friendica to make it more linked to your social graph (i.e., import contacts to find users, require proper names so people can find you, etc), or we need a new fediverse platform to come along that does that. So I would argue we can directly control it, by implementing these features that would make these networks valuable to most people.
but there is a harsh reality I think netizens of the fediverse need to acknowledge that will keep the majority of Facebook users locked in.
Would that be a bad thing?
Considering one of the biggest values that social media provides to society is being able to connect with friends and family....yes?
If you're worth knowing, people naturally keep in touch.
This is a very ten years ago argument, with facebook being you on the internet.
At any rate, facebook specifically, along with google, taught us that you should never be yourself on the internet, or at least only be some piece of you. Anything else is amateur shit.
What does look interesting is FUTO ID, a way to allegedly verify your identity securely. Might be a nice keypass for other fully or quasi anonymous things online. We'll need to imagine something good going forward, not copy something bad.
I'm gonna have to disagree. Today, I am able to keep up with the goings on of my friends and family on Facebook. This is not a ten years ago thing. Nowhere else on the web can I log in and see my friend from high school posting a funny meme, a colleague post a picture of his family, or my mom wishing my brother and his wife happy anniversary. You may not use it for that, but many people do, and I don't know how you could call that a bad thing. Isn't social connection what social media is all about? Why would we want to not accommodate that as much as possible?
Maybe it's just me, but that always struck me as a theater of connection, not actual connection. I know all my friends kids, even those who live abroad. Not because of an internet social network, but because we actually talk to each other on the regular, and share pictures and video calls, directly, personally. Not informally and creepily through a capricious algorithm. My good wishes to my friends and family on special occasions go directly to them, we don't need a middle man to choose when and where they are going to see those things, and I don't need to perform connection for people I barely talk to. Remember that the flip side of the coin is that social networks cause isolation by making all interactions feel impersonal and distant. Facebook literally caused a loneliness crisis amongst young people, who felt compelled to compete for attention and approval, distorting their expectations, altering their sense of self-worth, exposing them to abuse. Internet social networks have a very dark side.
How is it creepy to see what your friends post? I would also argue that you do have a middle man involved in any communication, even ones that are not on social media. Unless you are visiting them physically in person, you have some phone/internet providers mediating the communication. Social media is just another form of communication provider.
I would argue on the loneliness side of things, that having quit Facebook for a number of years, and then returned to it, I felt infinitely more isolated and lonely when I was off Facebook than when I was on it. Returning to it reconnected me with so many friends I had not talked to in forever, and I quickly realized how valuable social media is for social connection. It's kind of sad that you view it as performative, because that is not how I view it at all. I now have a healthy social circle that is there for me if I am going through a hard time in my life, help me find a new place to live if I'm moving, etc, and who I can be there in a similar manner. That is real value that is a lot harder to maintain by texting people directly.
I'm not attacking your experience. Good for you, keep enjoying it. I'm just saying that it is not universally good for everyone, it would do us all good to avoid erasing other's experiences or invalidating their emotions.
I also didn't say it is creepy to see what your friends post. I'm saying that it is creepy that Facebook gets to see everything you do in your personal life. Remember that meta trains AI on what you post. At least with messaging you can use end to end encryption if you want to.
I fully acknowledge that it is not universally good for everyone, and for those who do not find it good, there is plenty of other options out there. However, for the billions who use it daily to keep up with friends, it is good for them, and there are basically zero good alternatives. I agree that we should not invalidate others experiences. Just because something is not good for you does not mean it is not good for others.
Totally agree on the private company seeing everything you do and using it to train AI and monetize your data. That is why I am here after all. Wouldn't it be better if we got as many people out of that system as possible, and into more democratically controlled systems?
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