No, this isn't logical at all. Even queer people have unsatisfying hookups for various reasons.
Being queer isn't just about enjoying a certain type of sex, it's about being attracted to a certain type of person. If you're questioning being straight, presumably it's because you think some men are kind of attractive. Find a man like that, meet up with him, and see how things go.
Picking a guy on grindr and only describing him as "kinda feminine" isn't how you get to enjoyable sex. Where is the initial attraction that you'd feel if you're into men? The buildup of sexual tension that you'd feel if you're compatible? The discovery of how different types of sex acts feel? You need to go through these steps to actually find pleasure. I'm surprised that so many comments on this post don't seem to understand this.