I don't buy the "speed dating has less men than women" thing for a second unless they're talking about the 45+ bracket.
In fact I just checked a local speed dating event and the male tickets were sold out and the female ones had a 2 for 1 promo lol
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I usually get people asking for my number or socials when they're interested, asking out tends to happen over electronic communication after that.
My process is basically
- Casual conversation- if you don't hit it off naturally here, let it go.
- Reciprocal flirting
- Exchange contact info
- Develop friendship
- Ask out directly
- ???
- Go back to 1
I also get told I'm very attractive in various verbage near daily so 🤷♀️
Idk, just be respectful and don't be pushy if they're trying to let you down (and pay attention for if they're trying to do it gently)
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Well, we need referrals from friends to know men are safe. Even then i take it with a grain of salt