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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

When I was 18 I was definitely not participating in Easter Eggs hunts. Is this a common thing?

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

I will never understand her need to wear skimpy suits while wrangling a small child! I also don’t understand her need to photograph this moment other than to take a shot of her own bod!

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

A least L got a few minutes of attention while mom made a reel. Poor kid.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Right? All these pictures and reels she’s making… meanwhile it’s like, what is poor L doing, bobbing along by herself? Talking to strangers? Talking to the water or the pool wall?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

That was my thought. Where is L when she's body checking and making an absolute fool out of herself. No wonder no one hangs out with her.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

She wears it to give the “look at me, I’m a hot young mom!” vibes. Like nobody is looking at you at Disney resorts and giving you the attention you’re so desperate for Bird!

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

Literally no one is looking. Her body is just a regular mom body.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

So awkward, she had to have been looking at her screen to make sure they were both in it, then turn to L and snap the picture. I wonder if she let go of her immediately to make sure the picture was good enough or if there was a repeat of the steps to take a better one.

I hope it's just a shadow but L's arm looks fairly red! Hopefully Birdcrap gets her out of the sun once the photoshoot suffices.

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[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Her most recent post's caption: "LifE haS bEeN so BusY" - pictures are literally just her on her couch and family in their home. She really doesn't think much of her followers, dishing out that platter of gaslit BS

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I hate when she says she busy.....clearly she has no idea what busy looks like.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Right?? How tone deaf can this idiot be! Busy is us moms juggling full time jobs, three kids in school and extra curriculars! Not to mention actually keeping our homes clean, cooking meals and doing laundry! Get wrecked birdshit. You have zero life skills

[–] Wheatkingsandprettythings@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

SAHM mom of three here. Between my three kids, dog, house, extra curriculars and my volunteering, I’m so DONE at the end of the day. Last thing I think of is talking into my phone into the ether of nothingness.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

She says she has a sunburn because she didn’t ask anyone to help her apply it to her back while she was at the pool for 3/4 hours yesterday. How has she made it to 40?

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Sooooo embarrassing. I've said it before and I'll say it again, someone come take Turdie's hand, she is in need of assistance

I wonder if this is a ruse to avoid being outside/in sight of people, especially after that Youtube video surfaced yesterday. Poor L will probably be stuck inside while the beautiful Florida weather is right out the door.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago

She has ZERO actual life skills. Nana K did well with this one 🙄

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

3 plugs for USA today. She disgusting.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Actually sets her phone up to record herself fixing her hair. It’s pathetic

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago

My goodness....the sucking in is so obvious. Nobodies ribs stick out like that lol when sitting. She's such a fake

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

She’s doing some major sucking it in here!

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

I call bullshit on this entire post! I think the husband has work stuff and the mom is away and Birdie had to bring L or she brought her so she has someone to hang out with while J is busy. The whole crap about not having one on one time because of a big family! WTF! One of her kids, supposedly, lives at the dorm and the other 2 are only with her half the time so there’s a whole lotta hours there she could spend alone with her little girl! She is completely messed up and is going to ruin that child.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

That kid is a prop and has been since day one. Sarah is vile.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

"She's so grateful to be here" really? did you ask her and that's what she said? How do you know this little girl is grateful to be in a hotel somewhere that isn't home? Her word vomit is such jargon I can't believe she gets away with it. Also, such a lucky little girl, her mother decided "last minute" to bring her. So nice and thoughtful!! "Even if it's more to think about and do." Well, she is a young child, did you not expect that to come with having another child?? By saying that, she pretty much outs herself as not wanting to deal with that in the first place. Also, her saying she rarely gets one on one time with her youngest child is a load of crap, and very depressing, shocking crap at that. Even if that was true you should be making time for all of your children, especially your very young, growing child. A big family and busy lives is absolutely no excuse for not having or making time to be alone with your babies. What a useless, vile dumb ass. Her flame flickering out can't come soon enough, but probably won't because her stupid minions eat this crap up.

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[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

She’s such an insufferable liar!!! How can people not see right through her bullshit

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

She looks like she forgot a shirt and had to borrow one from L. 40 going on 12

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Her one thigh is skinnier than the other and her calves are bigger than her thighs. What a fake ass human.

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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago

Can she at least iron her fake cheerleader's skirt?

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I’m sorry but this is terribly depressing. I know kids have imaginary friends but everything about this little girl is imaginary. All she does is talk to imaginary things all day!!! I’m so sad for her. It doesn’t help her mother and followers find it adorable so they’ll never give her what she needs.

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

This is SO tragic :(

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

Soooo sad. This poor girl. Her mother is too busy looking at her phone/herself way more than her daughter. At least the imaginary cat doesn’t have a phone to talk to, or a skirt to hike up

[–] Richbynameonly@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Honestly this poor poor content baby only knows how to communicate and interact with animals or inanimate objects like walls. How do people not see this??

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I was coming to post this too. This poor girl, I feel so bad for her because she seems like such a happy adventurous and imaginative little girl and her parents don’t give her what she needs which is clearly interactions with HUMANS her age.

I get kids probably do stuff like this but it’s legit the only interactions this poor thing ever has.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I don’t know why they can’t see it. I have a 2-yr-old in my sphere who has a better vocabulary but she’s been spoken to all her life like she’s a real human being!

This is why L was suddenly made part of the trip - S can’t be alone

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

She really can’t be. I’ve * thought this for years. Such a weak person even though she tries her hardest to convince people otherwise.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Lmao how many times does she have to mention the "1:1" time. Like we get it, you rarely if ever make or take time to be alone with your youngest daughter

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Why is it such a big deal that she fell asleep with her hand on her mom? Kids do this all the time and this is her 4th. She’s acting like some first time mother off on an adventure.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I guess when you make such little time to be with your kids, regularly-occurring moments such as this are a shock to the system 🙃

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

She thinks it’s a flex that she’s saying a million times she’s spending 1 on 1 time with her yet it just makes her look like the absentee parent she is.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

Did you see where a follower suggested the animals are telling her their names? They are all fucked up!

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Spending that 1 on 1 time being a performative tool crying into her phone. Even L wants her to shut up.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Woof, she’s really starting to shine through, even with that HEAVY airbrushing

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